Hello! Today with us we have the amazing Carmen Richter! *Applause*
Angelina: If you’re comfortable, stable your disability and explain to the audience what it is:
Carmen: I have a few different medical conditions, but the most prevalent is primary lymphedema. Essentially, my lymphatic system has stopped working properly and no longer flushes waste fluid through my body like it’s supposed to. This leads to swelling in the limbs, similar to regular edema. The difference is, with lymphedema, it’s not water that gets retained; it’s protein fluid, which hardens and keeps building up in your body. When left undiagnosed and untreated, this can lead to extremely large, deformed limbs (think elephantiasis), and it also can lead to dangerous infections from the stagnant protein fluid and/or open wounds that won’t heal because you don’t have proper circulation in the limb. In my case, my right leg is over twice the size of my left leg. I’m homebound, can’t walk properly, drive, or wear normal shoes or pants, and I’ve been hospitalized with infections and open wounds in my leg several times, once for a full month. I
n addition, I’m an insulin-dependent diabetic, which impairs my ability to fight off infections and the speed of my healing when I get open wounds.
I also have anxiety, depression, autism, ADHD, and complex PTSD (which is PTSD from prolonged trauma). Those issues go way further back than the start of my physical disability, but dealing with the extreme life change from becoming fully disabled has definitely made my mental health more of a challenge.
Angelina: Please state your author name, the genres you write in and how long you’ve been published.
Carmen : I’m Carmen Richter, I write steamy contemporary romance in several different subgenres, and I’ve been published since August 2017.
Angelina: Can you share how your disability influences or informs your writing process or the themes you explore in your work?
Carmen: My mental health issues definitely influence my work more than my physical health issues do. I think the biggest way my disability influences me is that due to the issues I had with not being heard by medical professionals before I was officially diagnosed with lymphedema, I’ve found myself wanting to tell stories about people who struggle finding their voice and have to learn to advocate for themselves in some way.
Angelina: How has your personal journey with your disability impacted the stories you tell or the characters you create in your writing?
Carmen: More than anything, I think it makes me curious to learn more about the challenges other people face and create characters from ALL walks of life. When one of my characters has life experiences I don’t know a lot about, I do tons of research, talk to people who have knowledge in the area, and do my best to portray those experiences accurately, because that’s what I would want someone to do if they wrote a character with my life experiences.
Angelina: What challenges, if any, have you faced as an author with a disability, and how have you navigated or overcome them in your writing career?
Carmen: I know this sounds silly, but a huge challenge for me is connecting with readers. Being homebound, I can’t go to book conventions or signings, so the only way I can connect with readers is online. I’ve tried to post to TikTok at least semi-regularly so I can let people see my face (which I’ll freely admit I’ve been horrible about lately), and I sell signed paperbacks in lieu of going to signings. And I actually have a little something else up my sleeve that I’ll be announcing soon, but it’s not quite ready yet. 😉
Angelina: In what ways do you think literature and storytelling can help raise awareness or promote understanding of disabilities in society?
Carmen: I think that when people read about characters from different walks of life, who maybe struggle in a way the reader doesn’t, it can help breed compassion. We can never truly know what another person is going through, but if we can make an effort to expand our horizons, that’s a step in the right direction.
Angelina: Have your experiences with your disability shaped your writing style or the way you communicate ideas and emotions in your work?
Carmen: Not so much with my physical disability, but I do tend to write characters who deal with mental health issues a lot, particularly anxiety. When my characters are going through something traumatic, I try my best to really convey the physical effects of the emotions on their bodies as well as the thoughts behind them.
Angelina: Can you discuss any specific strategies or adaptations you’ve implemented to accommodate your disability while pursuing your passion for writing?
Carmen: Honestly, the biggest adjustment I’ve had to make is being patient with myself. There are times when my body simply cannot handle writing and I need to rest, and I’ve had to learn to pay attention and allow myself that time when I need it. I’ve learned the hard way not to put up a ton of pre-orders at once, because I honestly can’t guarantee that I’ll be able to meet those deadlines.
Angelina: What advice would you offer to aspiring authors with disabilities who might face similar challenges in pursuing a career in writing?
Carmen: Be patient with yourself! You don’t have to be a superhero. Find a system that works for you, no matter if it makes sense to anyone else, and play to your strengths rather than worrying about doing it all.
Angelina: Have you encountered any misconceptions or stereotypes related to your disability within the literary world, and how do you address or challenge them through your writing?
Carmen: I see more misconceptions about the mental health issues I have and my neurodivergence. But I’ve found the best way to challenge misconceptions about ANY disability is by telling stories with characters who live with those challenges without making it their entire personality. I let my readers fall in love with those characters and, through that, show them that people who have disabilities, no matter what kind, are human too.
Angelina: Can you share an instance or a character from your writing where your disability served as a source of empowerment or inspiration?
Carmen: I certainly can! Actually, I have two.
The character Hope in my book Patient 247 is 100% me. She has my health conditions and my personality, and she’s even an indie romance author like me. I wrote that book about my experiences with finally getting the help and treatment I needed, and other than the love story, it’s all real things that actually happened to me. It was hands-down the hardest book I’ve ever written because I had to relive some extremely traumatic memories to make the story the best it could possibly be.
The second instance is a bit more abstract. The character Sadie in my book My Voice Is Sealed deals with being abused medically (I don’t want to give away any more than that because I don’t want to spoil the story for new readers). And while her experiences and her illness are VASTLY different than mine, what I drew from my own life when writing the story was the feeling of helplessness and not being heard by medical professionals when I was still seeking my diagnosis. Trying so hard to find your voice and advocate for yourself when everyone you talk to seems to think they know better than you do about what’s happening in your body.
Angelina: How do you believe literature can contribute to a more inclusive society that embraces diversity, including individuals with disabilities?
Carmen: I think that if people took the time to read stories written by people with different backgrounds and experiences, we’d all understand each other better and realize that life is a HUMAN experience. Just because a person experiences life differently, it doesn’t mean their experiences are any more or less valid than anyone else’s.
Angelina: Have you found a community or network of support among other authors with disabilities, and how has this influenced your writing journey?
Carmen: I’ve met several authors with all different kinds of mental and physical health issues. Most notable, though, are my two alpha readers, who are also two of my best friends. I honestly don’t know where my career would be if it wasn’t for them because they are my biggest supporters and cheerleaders, but they’re also not afraid to tell me if my rough drafts suck and give suggestions for how to make them better.
Angelina: Did you have your disability when you began writing, or did you acquire it afterward? How has this experience affected your writing journey and your approach to storytelling?
Carmen: My disabilities were beginning to show when I first started writing, but it’s gotten progressively worse over time. I’d like to say that becoming completely disabled and having to stop working gave me more time to write…but the truth is, I’ve had to slow down because my health has taken a nosedive. But at the same time, I’ve become more of a perfectionist because of that. I refuse to release a story that I’m not truly proud of, and I will keep working on my books until I’m supremely confident that they’re the best they can possibly be.
Angelina: Can you describe your typical writing routine or session? Have there been any changes in your approach over the years? In what ways do you think your writing process might differ from that of an author without a disability?
Carmen: A lot of my writing is done from my bed. Sometimes I’ll sit on the side of the bed and write, and sometimes I have to use a tray table and write lying down so I can elevate my bad leg.
Angelina: Could you share with the readers what your favorite work is among those you’ve written? What makes it special, and why would you recommend readers to pick it up?
Carmen: My favorite story I’ve written is Zoe and Elijah’s story in my Sealed With a Kiss series. It’s told in two trilogies – hers and his – and it’s sweet, steamy, heart-wrenching, and sit-on-the-edge-of-your-seat suspenseful. The story starts as a student/teacher romance in the first book of each trilogy, and then the second and third books of the trilogies jump into the future, where it turns into a second chance romantic suspense story with a stalker, trauma, and secrets that come to light. Maybe it’s because it was the first story I ever wrote, but Zoe and Elijah will ALWAYS be my favorite couple. I think what makes their story unique and different is that some of the hardest stuff this couple faces comes after they say “I do.” The story doesn’t just end with wedding bells. They have to make a choice to fight together, to not let all the trauma they go through together break them. And I just think there’s something so beautiful about that because that’s what true, real love is made of.
If you’d like to read the books, here are the titles. The story is written sort of like the 50 Shades series, with a trilogy from each of their perspectives, so while you’ll get different information in each trilogy, you only need to read one or the other to get the full story.
ZOE’S TRILOGY:
1. My Lips Are Sealed
2. My Heart Is Sealed
3. My Future Is Sealed
ELIJAH’S TRILOGY:
1. My Fate Is Sealed
2. My Soul Is Sealed
3. My Dreams Are Sealed
Angelina: Where can readers connect with you online? Which social media platform do you frequent the most for engaging with your audience?
Carmen: I’m all over the Internet! But I particularly love hanging out and causing shenanigans in my Facebook reader group, Richter’s Romance Readers. You can join the fun here: http://www.facebook.com/groups/richtersromancereaders
Angelina: What key messages or insights do you hope readers and fellow writers will gain after reading this interview?
Carmen: I hope they’ll see that there is still a way to achieve your dreams when life throws the unexpected at you, even if you have to adjust your goals and find workarounds.
Angelina: Thank you for being here. The next guest author will be here next Monday.