Hello! Today with us we have the amazing Amber M. Kestner! *Applause*
Angelina: If you’re comfortable, stable your disability and explain to the audience what it is:
Amber : I have what is called Ebstein’s Anomaly is a rare heart problem that’s present at birth. That means it’s a congenital heart defect. In this condition, the valve that separates the top and bottom right heart chambers does not form correctly. This valve is called the tricuspid valve. As a result, the valve does not close as it should. I’ve had two heart surgeries since birth. First time it was stitched and didn’t hold well, had to go back 6 months later for a pig valve, I never got my mechanical valve. I have also outlived my life expectancy by a good chunk. I wasn’t supposed to live past 13, I am now 35 and my son Kamryn kept me alive while being pregnant with him. To add on to my disabilities I have low sodium issues so I am on Gatorade and I do sometimes take pro-bar gummies to help balance out my salt. I have hips problems due to issues with birth from my son when a nurse shoved my son back in me because she couldn’t handle the situation and that has led to complications, doctors can’t find solutions to it either. I’m due for a 3rd heart surgery but since COVID and home life I haven’t seen a doctor since, I’m more concerned over my parents then myself since they took care of me.
Angelina: Please state your author name, the genres you write in and how long you’ve been published.
Amber : Amber M. Kestner, Lesbian Romance, and published for 8 years.
Angelina: Can you share how your disability influences or informs your writing process or the themes you explore in your work?
Amber : I’ve not gone into deep detail of my heart condition but I have let readers know in at least 1 or 2 of my books that I do have heart problems. In one of my other books explains my mental health and the downhill it goes from.
Angelina: How has your personal journey with your disability impacted the stories you tell or the characters you create in your writing?
Amber : It has given my younger audience an insight of what I deal with on my disabilities and they understand. Some of my son’s classmates has the same heart condition while also dealing with the salt issue too.
Angelina: What challenges, if any, have you faced as an author with a disability, and how have you navigated or overcome them in your writing career?
Amber : The major issue is actually sitting down and writing because of my hips most days I am laid up and unable to write my stories. The only way I can actually get through the day is if I take medication for it but sometimes that barely touches it along with hot showers. When my heart gives problems, I am laid up and can’t do anything about it, I have to rest no matter if I want to write or not. It is a struggle.
Angelina: In what ways do you think literature and storytelling can help raise awareness or promote understanding of disabilities in society?
Amber : It helps gives people an education on what happens in a person’s body whether they want to look it up or not. It makes them understand that their is more than one disability in this world.
Angelina: Have your experiences with your disability shaped your writing style or the way you communicate ideas and emotions in your work?
Amber : It has to some extent, I try not to use my disability to overshadow the stories but also to let the readers know that they aren’t alone in this world with disabilities.
Angelina: Can you discuss any specific strategies or adaptations you’ve implemented to accommodate your disability while pursuing your passion for writing?
Amber : Always take hot showers and have plenty of food in your system. Also always get up and move around to prevent more pain issues.
Angelina: What advice would you offer to aspiring authors with disabilities who might face similar challenges in pursuing a career in writing?
Amber : Don’t let it stop you. All because you are at home in most cases and have daily struggles don’t let it slow you down. Keep writing, keep pushing for those dreams, and don’t give up.
Angelina: Have you encountered any misconceptions or stereotypes related to your disability within the literary world, and how do you address or challenge them through your writing?
Amber : Yes. When I was being bullied at the beginning of my career, they would down right assume I could go out and work even though no job would hire me due to needing Gatorade on the job not unless I worked a desk job. I don’t face my issues head on with my writings because I am criticized either way.
Angelina: Can you share an instance or a character from your writing where your disability served as a source of empowerment or inspiration?
Amber : My book She’s My Kind Of Country shows the mental health and judgement of body issues that most people face.
Angelina: How do you believe literature can contribute to a more inclusive society that embraces diversity, including individuals with disabilities?
Amber : It can show us that all disabilities matters. They have a way of teaching us in this life.
Angelina: Have you found a community or network of support among other authors with disabilities, and how has this influenced your writing journey?
Amber : No, I haven’t. I am usually in my own world since my disabilities are unique and very uncommon for what I deal with.
Angelina: Did you have your disability when you began writing, or did you acquire it afterward? How has this experience affected your writing journey and your approach to storytelling?
Amber : I was born with my heart condition. It does cause a lot of slow down days and causes writers block easily.
Angelina: Can you describe your typical writing routine or session? Have there been any changes in your approach over the years? In what ways do you think your writing process might differ from that of an author without a disability?
Amber : Nothing has changed on my part besides dealing with the pain level. My routines are the same each day, doesn’t change my writing routine it is matter of getting past the writing block. Less pain and fatigue compared to other authors who don’t have disabilities that limit what they can do day to day.
Angelina: Could you share with the readers what your favorite work is among those you’ve written? What makes it special, and why would you recommend readers to pick it up?
Amber : My favorite work that is Published is She’s My Kind Of Country it builds around a character who has to learn how to handle her mental issues and body issues that contribute into her love for another character. It is a personal favorite for this reason.
Angelina: Where can readers connect with you online? Which social media platform do you frequent the most for engaging with your audience?
Amber : Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, Goodreads, Tumblr, LinkedIn, and Twitter. I am literally not hard to find once you look up my author name.
Angelina: What key messages or insights do you hope readers and fellow writers will gain after reading this interview?
Amber : I hope that they learn that nothing can stop them from achieving their dreams and nobody in this world can tell you to quit. No matter the disabilities, you are stronger than what they are and no matter what harmful words are spread about you. Keep your head in the game and don’t give up.
Angelina: Thank you for being here. The next guest author will be here next Monday.